33-year-old woman refuses to host Thanksgiving again after her 35-year-old brother’s family trashed her home and offered no help, sparking a family feud over holiday hosting and responsibilities: '[They said] it's just one messy weekend'

Most people consider themselves lucky if they can maintain a healthy relationship with their siblings into adulthood. Not only does it benefit them personally, but those relationships often blossom towards their spouses and children, building an even stronger family network. That being said, sibling relationships can also grow more complicated with age. The fights aren't only over the TV remote anymore, instead, they involve hosting duties, RSVPs, and making sure the relationship resembles equal elements of give-and-take.

These siblings are the epitome of "But Mom, he started it!", even in their 'adult era.' Every year, when Thanksgiving rolls around, the family follows a long-standing tradition of rotating hosting duties. Everyone usually looks forward to the big day. However, that excitement quickly faded after last year's debacle. It was the 33-year-old daughter's turn to host, but instead of enjoying a warm, festive weekend, she found herself buying all the groceries, cooking every meal, and cleaning up after her brother's messy family…To the point that she even contemplated listing her home on Airbnb, at least then she'd be paid for all her hard work. So when this year came around and her parents asked her to host again, her answer was a firm N-O. Unfortunately, her brother and his family weren't too happy when discovering why…

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